i would like to go to the womens bathroom

If you are in a situation where you need to use the women's restroom and it's appropriate for you to do so, you should feel comfortable doing so. It's important to respect the rules and norms of the environment you are in, including any specific policies regarding restroom use. If you're in a public space and have questions or concerns, staff members are usually available to assist with any restroom-related inquiries.