about the public outings part, can you describe clothes from top to toe that you recommend to make this as humiliating as possible for our abdl dynamic?

For a public outing that leans into the ABDL dynamic, focusing on clothing that emphasizes infantilism while also being attention-grabbing can create a playful and slightly humiliating experience. Here’s a clothing suggestion, from top to toe: ### Top: - **Baby-Doll Shirt**: Opt for a pastel-colored baby-doll or oversized t-shirt with cute prints (like cartoon characters, animals, or nursery designs). The cut should be intentionally oversized to give a juvenile look. ### Bottom: - **Diaper**: Choose a thick, colorful diaper that is noticeable under the clothes. There are many ABDL-themed diapers available with playful designs that can enhance the aesthetic. - **Shorts or Skirt**: Pair the diaper with a very short pair of shorts or a puffy skirt. A romper could also work well, emphasizing a babyish vibe while still being playful. ### Legs: - **Leggings or Knee-High Socks**: If you want additional coverage, consider wearing colorful or patterned leggings that have fun designs. Alternatively, knee-high socks, preferably with ruffles or stripes, can add to the childish look. ### Feet: - **Cute Shoes**: Choose a pair of playful shoes, such as Mary Janes, sneakers with cartoon designs, or even slippers if the outing allows for a more relaxed footwear choice. ### Accessories: - **Pacifier or Bottle**: Carrying a cute pacifier or a baby bottle can enhance the ABDL aesthetic. You could even sip from the bottle during your outing. - **Diaper Bag**: A bright, cartoon-themed diaper bag can complete the look while also being functional. ### Additional Elements: - **Headbands or Bows**: Wearing a headband with large bows or ears can further accentuate the babyish vibe. - **Makeup**: If you’re open to it, consider using makeup that emphasizes innocence, like very light blush or sparkly lip gloss. Remember to gauge your comfort level and your partner's when planning attire, as dynamics and boundaries can vary significantly. Enjoy your outing!