Well she's actually my girlfriend and my parents are homophobic

It sounds like you're in a challenging situation. It's important to prioritize your well-being and the well-being of your girlfriend. Have you had a chance to talk to your parents about your relationship? Sometimes having open conversations can help, but it's also important to consider your safety and comfort. If communicating with them is difficult, surrounding yourself with supportive friends and allies can be really helpful. How are you feeling about the situation?