Our 14 yr old son has a fever and with mouth breathing and uncooperative for an oral thermometer reading. What should we do?

If your son is 14 years old and has a fever, along with mouth breathing and being uncooperative for an oral thermometer reading, here are some steps you can take:

**Check Temperature with Alternate Methods**: If he is uncooperative for an oral thermometer, consider using an axillary (underarm) thermometer or a temporal artery (forehead) thermometer, as they can still provide you a general idea of his temperature. 

**Monitor Symptoms**: Pay attention to any additional symptoms, such as difficulty breathing, persistent cough, rash, severe headache, neck stiffness, or any signs of dehydration (such as dry mouth, decreased urination, or dizziness).

**Hydration**: Ensure he stays well-hydrated. Encourage him to drink clear fluids, like water or oral rehydration solutions, especially if he is sweating or has trouble eating.

**Comfort Measures**: You can help reduce discomfort by dressing him in lightweight clothing and keeping the room at a comfortable temperature. A lukewarm bath or sponge bath could also help.

**Medication**: If he is uncomfortable, you may consider giving him acetaminophen (Tylenol) or ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin), following the dosing instructions for his age and weight.

**Seek Medical Attention**: If the fever is high (typically over 102°F or 39°C) or persists for more than a couple of days, or if you notice concerning symptoms (as mentioned above), it is important to contact your healthcare provider for further evaluation.

If you are ever in doubt or if his condition worsens, seeking medical attention as soon as possible is advisable.