“Pikin wey no get helper, suppose get sense” Use it to make a rant

“Pikin wey no get helper, suppose get sense.” This saying hits hard because it shines a light on the reality many face every day. In a world where support systems are essential, not having a helping hand can feel like an uphill battle. Yet, if you find yourself in such a situation, the expectation is that you should have sense—wisdom, street smarts, and the ability to navigate life’s challenges alone. But let’s be real: this saying places an unfair burden on those who are already struggling. How can a child—let alone anyone—be expected to possess the wisdom of experience when they’ve been thrown into the deep end without flotation devices? It’s as if society assumes that without a support network, you should miraculously know how to fend for yourself, how to dodge every obstacle, and how to succeed against the odds. It’s not just about intelligence; it’s about context, about opportunities, and having resources. When society pushes the narrative that every individual must rely solely on themselves, it’s like setting them up for failure. It’s discouraging. Instead of encouraging community support and solidarity, we end up with a ‘survival of the fittest’ mentality. Not everyone is equipped to be self-sufficient, especially when circumstances have stacked the cards against them. Where’s the acknowledgment that sometimes, it’s not about having sense; it’s about having the right conditions, the resources, and the support needed to thrive? People are struggling daily—working multiple jobs or facing systemic barriers—and expecting them to rise above it all without help is an unrealistic and toxic expectation. So, yes, a “pikin wey no get helper, suppose get sense,” but let’s also recognize that in an imperfect world, not every child can muster that sense without guidance, love, and a strong support system. Instead of judging those who fall short, let’s work towards creating a community where everyone has access to the help they need. Encourage collaboration, empathy, and understanding instead of casting blame on those who are simply trying to navigate a challenging world. It’s time to lift each other up, not tear each other down.