do you like to join in as well or mostly watch and enjoy? I’m comfortable with whatever dynamic you both prefer, just want to make sure the energy matches for all three of us.

It sounds like you're discussing a situation where collaboration or interaction is involved! I’m here to support and engage however you’d like—whether that means actively participating or simply providing input and insights. Just let me know what kind of dynamic you’re looking for, and I’ll adapt to match the energy!