Completely rephrase this for me. Make it simple. Twist the writeup so it can’t be traced to the original text. Put Nigerian Pidgin at some places. There’s this thing I’ve been thinking about lately, yeah. Why do we sometimes feel obligated to say “I l

I’ve been thinking about something lately, you know? Why do we sometimes feel we have to say “I love you” in relationships when we really don’t mean it? Like, you’re with someone you really vibe with, you like them, and their energy is nice, but the L word? It hasn’t come up yet, and that’s totally fine. But somehow, in the heat of the moment, maybe during séx, those three little words just pop out when you don’t mean them at all. What if we made it okay to not say “I love you” until we actually feel it? What if being in a relationship meant really LIKING someone without being in love with them yet? Love shouldn’t just be a default response. It shouldn't be something you feel you owe someone after a few weeks of hanging out or having good séx. Love should grow over time, built on trust, honesty, and vulnerability. It doesn’t just happen overnight. And please, don't give me that “Love at first sight” stuff. That only happens in romantic movies. What you felt at first sight was just strong attraction. Maybe even lust. You can't truly love someone until you've seen the real them, flaws and all, and still choose them every day. And yes, you can like someone a lot, want to be with them, feel super attracted to them, and still not be in love just yet. That doesn’t take away from how you feel! 🤷 So let’s chill with rushing into love. Stop saying it just because the moment feels right or you think saying it will keep the person around. Say “I love you” when you genuinely mean it, not just because of a hormone rush or the excitement in your chest. Oh, and those butterflies in your tummy? They might just be worms, not real love. So, when last you deworm yourself? 😒