Here are some anime series and themes that match your interests regarding the dynamics between a dominant female character and a submissive male character:
1. **"Baka to Test to Shoukanjuu"** - While it’s primarily a comedy, there are instances of playful dominance and humiliation, especially in the interactions between characters. The dynamic is more light-hearted compared to what you’re looking for, but there are elements of teasing.
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