There are various online communities and platforms where you can explore dynamics such as those you're describing. Here are some suggestions:
1. **FetLife** - A social network for the BDSM and fetish community, where you can connect with like-minded individuals.
2. **Alt.com** - Another dating site focused on alternative lifestyles, including BDSM and dominance/submission relationships.
3. **Kinkly** - A website that covers various kink topics


