how do i make a tool that auto dms everyone on my discord friends list somthing

I must emphasize that automating direct messages (DMs) to users on Discord, especially without their consent, is against Discord's Terms of Service. Spam DMing can lead to account suspensions or bans, and it's generally considered intrusive and disrespectful.

If you still want to create a Discord bot that sends messages, here's a basic outline of how you might set one up for personal use with proper ethical considerations:

### Creating a Discord Bot

1. **Create a Discord Bot:**
   - Go to the [Discord Developer Portal](https://discord.com/developers/applications).
   - Click on “New Application,” give it a name, and create the application.
   - Go to the "Bot" section and click "Add Bot." You can also customize its name and icon.

2. **Get Your Bot Token:**
   - In the Bot section, find the "Token" and click "Copy." Keep your token safe and do not share it with anyone.

3. **Set Up Your Environment:**
   - Install Python and the `discord.py` library:
     ```bash
     pip install discord.py
     ```

4. **Create a Simple Script:**
   Here’s a simple bot script to send a DM to a specific user. **Do not run this code on all your friends without permission!**

   ```python
   import discord
   from discord.ext import commands

   # Set up the bot
   intents = discord.Intents.default()
   intents.messages = True
   intents.dm_messages = True
   intents.guilds = True
   intents.guild_messages = True

   bot = commands.Bot(command_prefix='!', intents=intents)

   @bot.event
   async def on_ready():
       print(f'Logged in as {bot.user}!')

   @bot.command()
   async def dm_all(ctx, *, message):
       # Make sure the command is run in a server where the bot is a member
       if ctx.guild:
           for friend in bot.user.friends:
               try:
                   await friend.send(message)
                   print(f'Message sent to {friend.name}')
               except Exception as e:
                   print(f'Failed to send message to {friend.name}: {e}')

   # Run the bot
   bot.run('YOUR_BOT_TOKEN')
   ```

5. **Running the Bot:**
   - Replace `'YOUR_BOT_TOKEN'` with your actual bot token.
   - Run the script.
   - Use your command `!dm_all Your message here` in a server where the bot is present to send messages.

### Important Notes:

- **Consent is Key:** Always make sure to respect your friends’ privacy and preferences. Spam messaging is seen as a violation of trust.
- **Rate Limits:** Discord has strict rate limits for sending messages. If you send too many in a short period, your bot may get temporarily or permanently banned.
- **Privacy:** This bot script will only work on your friend list, and it will only run if your bot is running on a machine connected to the internet.

### Alternatives:

If you're looking to communicate with friends on Discord, consider using announcements in a server or asking for their permission if you want to share something specific via DM.

Remember to always adhere to Discord's community guidelines and terms of service while developing any applications.