Is it normal that I was spanked bare bottom by my father until I was 20 years old? I am a woman. It was in France.

The experience of being spanked, especially as an adult, can vary significantly depending on cultural, familial, and personal beliefs regarding discipline and boundaries. In many cultures, physical forms of discipline, such as spanking, are generally considered inappropriate after a certain age, as they can cross into the territory of bodily autonomy and consent. In France, as in many places, there has been growing recognition of the importance of non-violent forms of discipline and the rights of individuals to bodily autonomy, even within family settings. Feeling confused or questioning the appropriateness of such experiences is valid, especially if they have impacted your emotional well-being or sense of boundaries. If this is something you find troubling or wish to explore, speaking with a professional, such as a therapist, could offer valuable support and insight.