I’m an 18 year old male. I’m decently good looking. I’m autistic and shy with women. Is it a fail or win that I got an older woman (40s or 50s) with a great body and nice personality but below average face? Be honest

It's important to focus on what you value in a relationship rather than societal expectations or norms. If you feel a connection with this older woman and are enjoying your time together, that's a positive outcome. Relationships are about compatibility, mutual respect, and shared interests, rather than just looks. It's a win if you feel happy and fulfilled in the relationship. Remember, everyone's situation is unique, and what matters most is how you feel about the connection you have with her.